Though the cuckold will not penetrate his wife allowing him to perform cunnilingus after the bull has finished is very popular, often referred to as "cleaning".
Younger men who enjoy mature women will find they are very popular though couples may prefer men their own age.
Some couples carry the cuckold's humiliation to extremes and for them it is an essential part of the cuckolding lifestyle.
Others view the cuckold as enlightened for unselfishly allowing her to experience pleasure from a superior performer.
A common reaction from a wife is that her husband has lost interest in her and is offering her the freedom to look outside the marriage in return for receiving the same privilege.
She may suspect his desire to involve a third party man is an indication of homosexual leanings.